One thing in life I've learned, is that we cannot control life. What we can do is pay attention to the signs along the way that can help us make better decision when it comes to love. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and be in love.
God said it's not good for men to be alone, because he is love and because we are apart of him we too desires love. Don't let love cause you to make a decision that can cause you everything.